Monday, February 3, 2014

Unless You Make My Word Your Home: Part IV

Thanks to Dawn Hardison for her report of this conference given by Sister Genevieve at the General Meeting of November 10, 2013.  To reads Parts I, II, or III, click on Blog Archive to the right, select 2014, February, and click on the title you want.

You will know the truth and the truth will make you free.  What does that mean?  What does it mean to be free.  It’s a loaded word, isn’t it?  It’s amazing how many “freedoms” that we are encountering in our world today that we never imagined before.”  So the popular meaning is that I am free to do whatever I want to and nobody can tell me otherwise.  It were be a terrifying world if that were true!  That isn’t what the scriptures mean.  So what does it mean? 

In what ways are we un-free?  What are the things that keep us from being completely free?  Our sins and our faults.  Sr. Genevieve mentioned how much she and her brother fought as children.  That kept her as a child very un-free.  You know that when you are angry, you are not free.  You are not free to pay attention to the other person, you are not free to sit down peacefully and read a book, you are not free.  You are just owned by your anger.  So that would be one.  You can go through all of those seven categories of Evagrius, and they are all ways in which some force alien to ourselves, but that we have made our own, takes over and owns us. And we are not free to be even the person we want to be, never mind the persons God wants us to be. 

So to be free in the deepest definition is to be free to become the persons we are really meant to be.  It takes us a whole life time to discover what that really is.  I suspect we really find the truth when we step over the threshold into the other world.  Oh, That’s what I was supposed to be!  But the more we hang out with Christ, the more we become disciples, the closer we get to being free to grow into who we are meant to be.  And it’s a delightful discovery, isn’t it? 

Some of you have read the poem about when I get older I can wear a red hat with a purple dress.  The idea is that as we get older we discover that we no longer have to be defined by other people, and by expectations that have nothing to do with core realities.  I don’t have to be defined by any of that.  There may be rules that I have to follow for the sake of social well being.  But I do not have to be defined by other people’s expectations.  The expectation that really defines me is God’s expectation, and he’s not sitting back with folded arms and saying “Now this is what you should become.”  God is right there interacting with us in our communion with Christ, saying “This is what you can become.  Wanna play?”

So the more we go through life, the more deeply we grow into communion with Christ, not as defined with definitions of “do I have mystical prayer?” or any of those things, but the kind of deep communion with Christ that doesn’t necessarily have words or feelings associated with it.  The deeper that grows, the free-er I am not to be defined by other peoples rules and expectations.  Unless their rules and expectations happen to be that I become my best self, and some times there are people like that, and there are rules like that. 

So this is a very profound kind of freedom.  It’s the fruit of what Benedict tells us four times in rule, “Prefer nothing to Christ”.  You can read that a million different ways. 
-        Prefer nothing to the love of Christ. 
-        Prefer nothing to Christ’s love for you.
-        Prefer nothing to your love for Christ, because that’s where truth and freedom really lie. 

Now that doesn’t mean that other people don’t count – of course they count.  Because Christ is not just a single eye, Christ is his entire body.  But the truth will make us free because what we will discover, as Christ says elsewhere, “In my father’s house there are many dwelling places, or many rooms.”  The house of many rooms means many different things, I think.  It’s based on the temple, which had many little rooms around the courtyards.  They were used for storage, and some were used for people like the widow Anna to live in.  He was actually talking from a visual image that the disciples would have known. 

But think of the house of God as a house with many rooms.  There’s a room where we can find our way, and be enriched, no matter where we are in our own lives, no matter what part we are in.  Every single dimension of ourselves can be found in this house of many rooms, like suppose I worry.  I particularly like to worry about things I can’t do anything about and they are next week, not today. 

So what did the gospels say – Do not worry about what you have to eat or drink.  I don’t think that means don’t have feelings of worry, but don’t let that rule you.  Or, I’m feeling tired – My rest is in God alone.  I’m feeling a real need to be in deeper communion with someone else.  “Love one another as I have loved you.”  Every dimension of ourselves, of our truth as it is now, and our truth as it is becoming, every single dimension we can find in this house of many rooms.  So we know the truth was Christ but we come to know our own truth as well.  And we don’t have to apologize for any of it.  Really, it’s all there somewhere. 

And the way of dealing with it is one of the reasons that the book of Job is there.  There’s patient Job for about two chapters, and starting with chapter 3 there is Job telling God how the cow ate the cabbage and how he should not be doing what he is doing, in no uncertain terms.  And he’s angry.   It reveals a human being at his understandable worst, growing into a different kind of wisdom, very painfully.  That’s the human story in one of its aspects, and there it is, right in the Bible.  So the Bible is not all pretty.  It’s not supposed to be all pretty, because we’re not all pretty.  Our reality is not all pretty.  Our all of our reality is in God’s hands and it is capable of growing into ultimate beauty. 

So I think our mandate from God today is, I think, make my word your home.  That’s a very Benedictine mandate.  Make my word your home. 


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